I feel a need to address both women and men on this matter, because it DOES matter. Both feel very strongly about this part of their marriage. But it also addresses what it is like for the man to be refused. It is a gigantic issue, if your sex life is unfulfilled. He and his wife Lori have a wet site called The Marriage Bed. Paul knows what he is talking about on this issue.
My wife no longer wants sex with me so I'd like to have an affair
11 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Enjoying Sex, Even If They Aren’t Saying Anything
Receiving oral sex is pretty much the best thing ever. But between worrying about how you taste and what he's seeing down there, sometimes…it's hard to relax and just go with it. Oral sex is a pretty intimate act—his face is all up in your vag, after all. So, maybe hold off until you're completely comfortable with him.
Far too often, people in long-term relationships find themselves experiencing a dwindling sex life. Experts often blame the dampened coals of passion on women having a vanishing libido post-marriage. I hope to debunk some of the common myths and help couples regain the physical intimacy they both used to enjoy so much. Thousands of books, full of theories on why women lose desire , fill bookstores.