He met a new woman who made him feel alive again and his wife met a rich man who took her away on expensive travels around the world. For a marriage to stay alive, it usually needs to have an ongoing, mutually enjoyable storyline that it is aiming to unfold over time. For example: When a couple first gets married, the life story that they are aiming for is usually to get a house together, have children and enjoy the fun, responsibilities, love and challenges that come with maintaining close family relationships. Part of the story might also be career or business goals, which then link to other goals that each or either of you want to achieve for the sake of the marriage and a better life. So, if your wife now wants to sleep with another man, it might be a case of her no longer having enough of a story to aim for with you in the long run. You may have fallen into a routine and simply gotten used to the idea of being with each other and not having much else to aim for, other than to stay alive and see your children grow up and be happy.
My husband and I are in our mids and have been together for 30 years. The last few times, he found it difficult and lost his erection. The problem is that we have no intimacy at all. He has never been terribly demonstrative physically, and I wonder if this is because his parents never were, but now we never touch, never hold hands, never cuddle. At the moment, every conversation we have turns into an argument and, at times, it seems better not to talk at all. Our two children will soon both be gone. I often think about leaving him, but the reality is very difficult to think about.
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