You may be wondering who would want to become a surrogate. Knowing how to choose a surrogate mother can be a challenge. Our surrogates make it a bit easier. These women are different. Our surrogates cannot imagine life without their families and their children. They want that for you.
Surrogacy is an arrangement, often supported by a legal agreement, whereby a woman the surrogate mother agrees to bear a child for another person or persons, who will become the child's parent s after birth. People may seek a surrogacy arrangement when pregnancy is medically impossible, when pregnancy risks are too dangerous for the intended mother, or when a single man or a male couple wish to have a child. Surrogacy is considered one of many assisted reproductive technologies.
For some couples this would be unremarkable; for us it was a red flag. We had been in California for about a year and suddenly our sex life had dropped off a cliff. When I tried to kiss or cuddle up with him in bed he told me he was sleepy and rolled over onto his side with his back facing me.